Anonymous asked: "(But yeah, I have rejected guys in the past)." It is my understanding that you've actually rejected *every guy* in the past. You don't have to be "in a rush" to go out on a date, homie. I've known you for a while now, and to be honest, I've seen you reject guys for no reason other than, "I don't want to be in a relationship." I read your old posts about how you thought guys liked the "idea" of you, rather than you. You're a nice girl. If a guy likes you, he likes you. Give someone a chance.
Ahah, well I’m sorry, but your understanding is wrong.
To be honest, yeah, I have rejected guys for that reason. And on the flipside, I’ve rejected guys for other reasons as well. Maybe because I hadn’t felt ready in the past. I probably did let fears get in the way some of those times. I myself knew I had a lot of growing to do, even now I do.
You say your close to me, and I know this is all probably advice. But all this trying to tell me to open up to dating is just bothersome. And I am getting defensive, and I’m probably being stubborn and ignorant too. The way I live is my business. When it happens, it’ll happen. I don’t like being told what to do.
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clarisabonnnibel said:
PREACH, WOMANN. PREACH.
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